Married man, 26 years old, asking for Vasectomy.
- Doesn’t want to tell wife. They have kids (complete family).
Explore General Knowledge
What do u understanding about Vasectomy?
From where did you learn about it?
Do u know anyone who got this done?
Since when are u thinking about this? (1wk or 1yr)
Why you’ve decided to get Vasectomy? P: I don’t like using Condom.
In terms of method, do you know how they do it?
Do you know what kind of changes vasectomy can make into ur body?
Do you the benefit and disadvantage? Success rate? Reversibility?
I would like to ask you some personal questions, may I know if u are in a relationship?
How long have you been in relationship?
Does she have any contraception?
Do u have any kids? Would u plan to have kids one day?
D: Have u discussed it with your wife?
P: No
D: May I know why?
P: (gives reason)
D: I understand that its ur decision but do discuss with her as it’s a life changing decision and this
will definitely affect her too.
OR
P: Long time ago
D: What’s your partner’s opinion?
D: Does she know that you’re here today?
Does your partner would like to have any children in future?
Is there anybody forcing you to make this decision?
General health, Risk factor and Social History
MAFTOSA: Bleeding disorder, previous history of STI
Social: How is the relationship between you and your partner?
Thank u for answering my questions, let me explain to you, what’s Vasectomy?
- It is a surgical procedure to cut/seal the tubes that carry the sperm which will permanently prevent pregnancy. It’s a day care procedure, usually carried out under a local aesthetic where you’ll be awake but don’t feel any pain and takes about 10 to 15 mins.
- Alternate explanation, It’s a male sterilisation procedure, preventing sperms from entering the ejaculate. There is a tube called vas deferces in testicle, which transfers the sperm. In this procedure, we’re going to interrupt the transmission, thereby cutting the tube or puncturing it or sealing it with occlusive method, done by clips or plugs.
- Failure rate: 1 in 2000
- It’s permanent one, so once it’s done cannot be reversed.
Covered by NHS
- Let me tell you that Vasectomy is covered by the NHS, so if in future u change ur mind and u want to reverse this procedure and have kids. It will be very difficult and might be impossible and this
wont be covered by NHS u need to get it done privately.
Benefit
- It’ll not affect the sex drive.
- Very effective.
- Success rate very high
- Minor surgical procedure
Disadvantage:
- It takes about 12 weeks to confirm
- Doesn’t protect against the STI
- We are always here to help you with any kind of referral and we want the best care for you
- Low success rate of reversibility
- Risk and complication: Hematoma, Chronic pain in testies (Post vasectomy pain)
- You are quite young and don’t have any kids, sterilisation is for people who don’t want any more children. Therefore, may not be the best choice for you. Our research shows that patients younger than 30 years old generally they regret their decision and if they want a reversal that’s not possible later. I would suggest to you to take some time, may be several months to think about your decision again, Is that alright with you?
- You mentioned that you don’t want to discuss this with your wife, that’s oay
know something that you will decide but maybe you can try TALKING THERAPY to discuss this with somebody neutral, to really understand what exactly do you want, then we can meet in couple of months and see if you still have the same decision.
P: Doctor, is it legally required that I talk to my wife about this.
D: No, it’s not a requirement but we will be very glad if you can discuss this with her because this decision will affect both of you in the life. Its a life changing decision so it’s better to discuss with the loved one.